What is breakup ?

What is breakup ?

So tell me what is breakup in your way ? 

Okay, think... 

Again think..

One more time think it ...

What you found ?

"Breaking up with you girl friend is a breakup I guess ?"

That what you found ? I know.  

No this is not a breakup. Now you are thinking what the hell I'm saying. Yeah I know sometimes I do😂 . But apart of that I want to ask some questions.

what is the meaning of breakup? What are the symptoms of breakup ?

Now again you guys are thinking what the hell you are reading totally bull. Okay it's not . This post will be worth for it if you read the whole post

Most of the people I mean almost everyone relates it from having a breakup by girlfriend/boyfriend. But people don`t know the real meaning of having a breakup.

How many people know that breaking a friendship with your most loved friend is also a breakup. It feels same painful as having a breakup with your girlfriend actually sometimes it hurts more than with your relationship. Just imagine you are having a friend with whom you spend almost more than 2-3 hours, You both guys go for late night ride, he helps you finding the cheapest best outfits for you. He gives you the best advise for your relationship /carrier/education/fashion etc. Many times that person saved you from getting yelled your parents by taken blames on itself.


Don`t get confuse it`s a friendship love not that love. people gets confuse many times about what 
type of relationship you have with the person.  So I`m taking about a friendship relationship now.


So just imagine for a second you have broken your friendship with that person/friend/best friend/brother/sister/mother/father. Nowadays people believe having a friendship relationship with parents too. And surprisingly Parents are also getting supportive in this matter in most of the cases if we talk about the young parents then they are fully supportive of having a kind of friendship relation with their children,

 Think now that person is does not seems same. Now you don`t have that person when you are on your shopping. There is no one now who gives you advises when you are in trouble and now you can`t call that person when you get stuck somewhere. And you have not a person now with whom you can celebrate your success and also don`t have a company when you get sad and wanted a long walk with having a stupid conversation/or just a silent walk who understands you silence too when there is no one besides you.

If imagine can bring a tears as hard as you having a breakup with your girlfriend/boyfriend. So how hard it will be if happens. No matter If that is only your good friend/best friend . It allows on every person who is your beloved and your close. He can be you family members too.

Friendship is a god gifted. And the people say that god gifted thing should not be disrespected. whoever is your good friends even if it your family member just keep them safe and forever in your family. 

I also know the pain of having a breakup with your boyfriend or girlfriend because from past days she/he was the only around you.You spend almost everyday with him/her. By holding her/his hands you walk a whole park or on a street. Sharing the same ice-cream with him/her. Eating things on one plate to both. Talking gossips on phone with her/him. Telling one another to every secrets. Trusting more than any person in your life.

Why ending the life is only the option person having these days? 

It is also hard to breakup with your girlfriend/boyfriend. Some people get better after this but some take it that this is the last thing in their life and they stopped their life there. They forget about every person related to his/her life. Their love for him/her by their friends/family. I mean why? Just for one person. I know those person will never live with you but ending your life is not the option. Nowdays people are do not think about what they have. They always see what they don`t have but they never realised the things are they have many of people are dreaming to have them.

Life is a meaning of imperfection. Everyone has something that they do not have that thing in their life. So appreciate the things that you are having and you should to glad of having them.

I know it is so hard to get over from the person who was the one from whom you started your days and end. But their are lots of reason also to live your life again. People will come and go after all it is life. It goes on whether you want it or not. Remember one thing people the right will stay with you till the day of die. 

Please let me know your views in down below.